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Freedom from Deep-Level Discouraging Voices

How are you to enter a new world of mental harmony with the Four Interactive Forces of Creation if you don’t first let go of mental voices that gainsay you?

The Four Interactive Forces are: Weak Nuclear Interaction … Strong Nuclear Interaction … Gravity … and … Electromagnetism. Electromagnetism is the one getting ‘big play’ these days (called Law of Attraction). I mention these again for those of you who missed last weeks blog.

Do you know that you inherited a ‘false self’. This ‘false self’ is a consequence of ‘the sins of the father that are handed down to the seventh generation’. Thus, this ‘false self’, is an ‘inherited self’ … and it consists of 60,000 NO’s (that you heard between age two and six). Therefore this ‘false self’ can also be called a ‘thought-self’ (because it consists of thoughts … and if the thoughts go – it goes). Even though it is not real … it can feeeeel damn real!

Do you really think you are the ‘self’ that your deep-level thinking accepts as true? Do you really think you are the ‘false self’ that suffers? Please don’t tell me that you don’t suffer to some extent in some domain of your life … I do … almost everyone, but a very rare few, suffers to some greater or lesser extent.

When you learn how you unknowingly victimize yourself with deep-level thoughts, you can then clean things up and truly tie into the Four Interactive Forces of discreation and creation so they work marvelously for you. This means that you can change your world when you drop the ‘false self’.

The Four Forces have no conscience. They have no judgments. They just exist – always working to support your deep-level thinking. Therefore, it’s time to begin making…

Marvelous Denials.

When you Marvelously Deny a long lingering thought-voice that speaks of lack, you create room for declaring the truth. Nature hates a vacuum and works with you. It is a very powerful ‘back-door method’ of letting go of the inherited ‘false self’ that has a negative impact on you.

Only when you call upon Weak Nuclear Interaction to move in and rid you of mental pain forever – can true happiness exist for you (or me). Mohammed did it. Krishna did it. Abraham did it. Moses did it. Jesus did it. Are they human beings or super-human beings (better than you and me?) I believe they are genuine human beings like you and me. Perhaps I will not master the ‘Marvelous Denial Method’ as did they, but I can certainly become much better at it than I am right now.

I will go into detail on the Marvelous Denial Method in future blogs. You are skilled at mimicking the scolding voices that came with the 60,000 NO’s. We’ll look deeper into this later.

Whether you are consciously aware of it or not, you are constantly bombarded by deep-level thoughts that have misleading and impoverished points of view. Yes, you are! Me too? If I wasn’t – then my life would be so perfect that I could say “fish,” and plenty of fish would ‘fall out’ in an instant (so that I may feed the masses of hungry folks).

There are good, hard working quantum physicists who believe that a thought can manifest into a thing in an instant if other contrasting thoughts did not show up to get in the way. I believe that, too. Do you?

Yes, I am taking you out on a limb with this blog. It is a spiritual blog. It is a practical blog. If it ain’t practical – it ain’t spiritual! Spiritual wisdom is practical common sense – they’re inseparable!

It is extremely important for you to recognize the following truth: The deep-level thought-voices that convince you of your inadequacy (in some domains of life), are not you! They were installed during the childhood years of 60,000 NO’s … and now they speak through your psychic system. Yes they do … like a radio station.

When you Marvelously Deny (joyously deny … exactingly deny) these discouraging thought-voices … when you no longer accept them as part of your original nature – you call upon Weak Nuclear Interaction to sweep in and wipe them out.

You know that the radio voices you hear on the car radio, while commuting to work, are not you – don’t you? You know how to turn down the radio if you don’t like what the voices are saying. You are now learning how to turn down the volume on those deep-thought voices that discourage you.

You are learning how to make room for spiritual wisdom (practical common sense). I hope you are nodding in agreement? Dismissal of the dark makes room for the light! My new book goes into complete detail (coming soon) – I can only offer so much in a blog.

More to come … please comment … you teach others with your input … and I expand on the blog with my comments to your comments. What a great device for learning the truth (which will set you and me free of the harmful thought-voices).

blessings

“Best Comment of the Week”. This weeks best comment comes from Lori Gosselin of “Life, for Instance”. The runner up is Chris Barba from “Think Choose Live.” See their comments here.

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The Value of Thoughts

I imagine if everyone truly understood the value of their thoughts, they’d be much more careful with the thoughts they place on center stage of the mind.

Thoughts, in many cases, are far more powerful than weapons. Gandhi proved this while freeing India from Great Britain.

The voice of your inner thoughts can cast you into a beautiful, bright meadow or into a dark, gloomy cave.

Thank goodness for your inherent prerogative to choose your own thoughts – you can bless yourself with enriching experiences, every day of your life. But to do this, you must leave out no details when speaking to yourself about that promotion you intend to get, or that perfect mate you dream of attracting, or that perfect cake you plan to bake.

Study the likes of Emerson or Thoreau, and you will lift the veil of ignorance that covers your awareness like a damp rag. Life is meant to be simple, only a complicated mind makes it complicated. A mind gets complicated from the damp rag.

It’s said that God lives in the smallest details. Think about your aspirations and aims down to the tiniest detail, and your world will change in ways that give you sublime satisfaction.

Your work is to cooperate with the four Interactive Forces of Creation (strong nuclear interaction, weak nuclear interaction, electromagnetism, and gravity). These four forces are your loyal servants, but they cannot help you until you go into detail with yourself about the outcomes you aspire to achieve.

Electromagnetism, the third Interactive Force, is referred to as the Law of Attraction. It is popular to speak of it these days. It is always in action, but it cannot help you without the aid of the other three Interactive Forces. This is why so many folks feel disappointed when trying to work with this one Interactive Force alone.

Have you ever asked yourself what it is between you and your mind that you influence? You now know – it’s the four Interactive Forces, not just one. If you neglect the other three, your ideals rarely become real for you.

If you long to see the division between your ideals and ‘the real’ swept away by the ocean of these four forces, then you must ROAR about your sufficiency and your hidden abilities. This is the first step.

Are you curious about these four Interactive Forces? Do you want to hear more? Do you want to learn more about how to truly ROAR?

Please leave your comments. What thought-seed does this blog nourish in for you? What is your immediate reaction?

blessings
“Best Comment of the Week”. This weeks best comment comes from John Sherry of Real Simple People. The runner up is Marcus Sheridan – The Sales Lion. See their comments here.

Computer Effort is Not Enough

Your mind is your ‘land of opportunity’, but that is not enough! The computer can help you get to where you want to go, but don’t give it too much stock!

Too many folks think that simply sitting at the computer and tweeting or blogging or facebooking or commenting on blogs will somehow give them the joyous life they dream of experiencing. IT WON’T!

Too many folks think that reading self-help books or being part time ‘life-coaches’ for others or talking about success will bring them the joyous life they dream of experiencing. IT WON’T!

HEY THAT’S ME! I used to do some of that, but I’ve had many breakthroughs since then. My life is living testimony to the breakthroughs.

I was born into poverty. And Now? I own homes on the ocean in Massachusetts and California. I even built twenty townhomes and named the street after myself (Bobwhite Lane) in Santa Cruz, Ca. How ego-centric is that!

I never traveled more than 100 miles from my hometown for years, and did little other than what my shallow perspective of life offered. And now I’ve traveled to exotic ports all over the world, I’ve taken race car lessons, I’ve skydived from high in the air and went on scuba adventures, deep in the exotic Caribbean ocean waters.

I love animals and have always had dogs. And now? I’ve been on African safaris. I have an exotic parrot who actually takes long walks with me (on my shoulder), when I take my daily ‘Emerson nature walks’.

I use to be shy and dated little. And now? I was even given the label ‘Boston’s most eligible bachelor’ and was auctioned off at charity events.

What’s your point rob?
This sounds like a lot of ego-boasting to me!

  • My point is – life does NOT unfold as we want it to when we hold wrong viewpoints about ourselves and pretend that we do not.

  • My point is – spending too much time on the computer, hoping this will open a new world is living into a myth that will disappointment you.

  • My point is – what would you be doing right now if every false impression imposed on you (since birth) was removed? Would you really be doing everything that you are doing right now?



Have you felt the frustrating pain that appears when what you wish your life was about clashes with what your life is actually about. The pain may be major or minor, but it swells up when you make a reality check. Are you willing to admit it?

Human beings don’t like it when placed under a microscope and their False Self is exposed. The False Self is that person who pretends to be up to something, but after decades of demanding and waiting, we realize it took its advice and have lost our way. It’s not bad to admit that we’ve lost our way, it is the first step in the right direction! Many folks, on their deathbeds, have said that if they were to take their lives over, they’d take more chances! They don’t regret what they did (mistakes and all); they regret what they did not attempt to do.

Are you willing to admit that you’re stuck in some area of your life?
GREAT!
That is precisely where you must begin – if you really intend to create change.
This is not a grim task – it is an exhilarating event!

Let’s get back to the computer for a moment. Living on the computer is a relatively new phenomenon that gives many folks a false sense of aliveness – so much so that they fear being without it. I just read an article that said, ‘more and more people are coming to the reality that ‘computer living’ will not bring the fulfillment of happiness and wealth that they hoped for. Stand aside and notice the reaction within yourself about this.

I’m not saying that you have to quit ‘computer living’ cold turkey, but you do have to get up and get into the world if you really intend to meet fabulous people and live an extraordinary life. The advice to spend less time on the computer and more time in real life can sadden many people – it’s sort of like feeling sad when the doctor tells you to give up eating so much junk food.

If you have any specific questions that you’d like to ask me about how I went from fat and broke to fit and independently wealthy, from angry and alone to joyfully living in a world of wonderful friends – please fire away.

How can I help you to abandon your False Self with its fears of limit? How can I help reacquaint you with your Real Self, whose potential is unlimited? These questions alone should prompt the serious seeker to ask questions or offer comments that help others to ask questions.

Kierkegaard said, “You are in utter despair about yourself? Good. That is a needed step toward liberation.” Perhaps you are not in utter despair, but you are in good company if you understand what Kierkegaard is referring to.
It takes courage to look directly at oneself and say, “I’m not entirely happy with who I have created myself to be.” I know it takes courage because I continually do this – it’s called INSPIRATIONAL DISSATISFACTION!

My disappointments with life are always caused when I am living from the illusory False Self … and spending my creative energy trying to protect its flawed points of view rather than correcting them. Alfred Tennyson addressed this dilemma over 100 years ago:

So run my dreams but what am I?
An infant crying in the night:
An infant crying in the light:
And with no language but a cry.

Again, I ask … how can I help you declare your independence from that infant crying in the night?
How can you contribute to this blog … what response might you offer that helps others declare their independence from that infant crying in the night?

Blessings

“Best Comment of the Week”. This weeks best comment comes from Angela Artemis of Powered by Intuition. The runner up is Anne Barlow from The Painted Universe. See their comments here.

Impartial Witness

The purpose of this blog is to help you discern the difference between how your heart-mind (deep-minded thinking) works, and how your surface mind works.

To begin with, as you already know, your surface mind is working when you are consciously paying attention to what’s happening or what’s being spoken. You are working with your surface mind right now, while reading this blog and paying attention to the lessons it offers.

Your deep-minded thinking is working to take care of the many habits and automatic reactions you have (like when driving your car to work – all of a sudden you’re there and you don’t remember the trip!).

The interesting thing about deep-minded thinking is that once it’s trained to do something, you don’t have to give it anymore conscious attention to make it repeat the trained response. Once heart-mind absorbs a pattern, it will hold onto it for a lifetime (unless it doesn’t!).



So, all I want you to do right now is to become the impartial witness to automatic tendencies that make up your personality. Just take the time to notice what you automatically do, (what your deep-thinking pushes you to do); it’s those things that are very predictable about you (others can tell you in an instant). Just by noticing, like it’s someone else (not you), makes the tendency waxy; it becomes less rigid. What makes this process real interesting is that you get to drop that solid feeling that you didn’t notice you had before. Just as you begin noticing the rigidness of your tendencies, you get to take out the rigidity; how much fun is that? From this moment, start watching, there is no need to strain.

I don’t know what you may do without rigid tendencies determining your personality; I don’t know if you would install new tendencies or just be free! Or maybe you would choose to allow the rigidity to remain the same; this is entirely up to you. Suddenly you become aware that the mind is nothing other than ‘thought-waves’ that surrounds your beingness, but right now you’re hovering above those waves (like if you are in a helicopter, hovering above the ocean).

Now I would like to suggest to you that you can change as fast as you want to, and it is especially easy to do when you separate yourself from your mechanical reactions. In these freeing moments, your deep-thinking mind can begin to remember when you were as free as a bumblebee (flying from flower to flower looking for honey), feeling confident and competent!

All of this and more can happen smoothly and swiftly. Did you ever think you could take care of deep-content matters (like ridding yourself of rigid tendencies), just by stepping aside and noticing your automatic reactions? This is a vital step to enlightenment (to lightening up the internal load that deeply influences you) … NOW … very good!



I have just treated you to a very powerful Thinking Ladder process that gives you immediate control of the “I AM” that you choose to be. Taunting tendencies can attack you with sarcastic remarks whenever life is testing you. It’s time to put an end to such tyranny. Begin now to notice what deep-content ‘thought voice’ continually promises you a gain if you follow its advice, but leaves you with a loss (it tells you that pouting or shouting will get you what you want).

This blog offers an awesome insight! Take the time to read it again and ponder how it applies to you. You can guarantee the collapse of intimidating tendencies when you take the time to notice, “Hey, that’s not really me!”

Blessings … please leave a comment to help others understand what you’ve learned about yourself or about others here … leave a comment so you can more deeply understand the treasure that the information is offering you.

P.S. You will find great stuff like this in the little orange book (ROAR), coming out soon.

“Best Comment of the Week”. This weeks best comment comes from Bryan Thompson of Elevation Life. The runner up is JK Allen from the Hustlers Notebook. See their comments here.

Who’s Holding Title to Your Life?

Here is a conversation that I recently had with a famous ex-rock star, who feels that he’s lost his sense of power in the world, that the world is insisting that he be who he no longer cares to be:

Teacher: Who’s living your life for you?
Student: Well, I never thought of it that way, I always thought that I lived my own life, but I’m not satisfied any longer with how things are turning out.
Teacher: Well, what makes you think the thoughts you think right now? … What happened that puts you in the moods that you don’t enjoy? Why do you say and do the things you do that you later regret?
Student: Obviously the world effect my moods, but my own attitude and point of view are a major part of it.

Illuminating tip: The capacity for becoming a new kind of person exists with in everyone … but first we must examine what causes us to be as we currently are.


Teacher: Where’d you get your viewpoint toward the world; toward everything in the world … like people, sex, god, money, health, politics, everything else?
Student: I learned a lot of it as a kid, and more of it as I grew up.
Teacher: Then, you’re saying that you acquired them; you’re saying that they’re not part of your original nature; would you agree?
Student: Yes, that’s logical.
Teacher: Then you are living according to the attitudes and viewpoints of others who passed their attitudes and viewpoints onto you?
Student: Well, certainly that’s true for a part of it.
Teacher: Then, can I assume that you are not living your own life entirely; that you are repeating what others taught you; so in a way, you are living the life they presented to you?
Student: Now that you say it that way, I cannot only assume this is true; I can see how it IS true.

Illuminating tip: A flower seed contains everything it needs to express as a beautiful flower; is it possible that you contain everything you need to express as a beautiful you? You cannot truly address this question until you notice that you’ve added unnecessary stuff to yourself (flower seeds don’t have the capacity to do this – perhaps that’s their blessing).


Teacher: What if some of these learned points of view and subsequent attitudes are wrong; what if they are stopping you from being able to recreate yourself anew; What if there is a ‘blossoming you’ just yearning to be nurtured, but to nurture it, you must unlearn the poor points of view and attitudes that you accepted as true?
Student: If that’s the case, then I’m paying a heavy price for a learned points of view.
Teacher: Do you want to pay that heavy price; must you continue to pay that price?
Student: Not at all!
Teacher: Why not?
Student: I can drop those points of view, if I’m really willing to.
Teacher: YES, since they are merely learned, you can unlearn them; you can toss them out like old, uncomfortable shoes that never fit right in the first place.
Student: Then, for the first time in my life, I will once again ‘hold title to my life’, like when a kid – I really got that it was MY LIFE! I love that idea; I’m ready.
Teacher: When you understand what it means to be loyal to your fundamental nature, and you learn how to ROAR about that – you receive incredible practical benefits.
Student: That’s funny, I never thought to pledge my loyalty to my fundamental nature; when do we being ROAR-ing?

Illuminating tip: The way to begin change is with light-hearted feelings of self-liberty; the little orange book that I am soon releasing will show you how to ROAR your way back to self-dependence (rather than world-dependence).


Now, lets take the conversation deeper … Please leave your comments on this conversation; AND, I encourage you to comment on each others comments … You will get notices via e-mail when this happens … this is what makes the lesson take effect in YOUR life.
blessings

Check out my contribution to The Great Life Philosophies E-book. Now available for a free download courtesy of Joe Wilner at Shake off the Grind

“Best Comment of the Week”. This weeks best comment comes from Rosemary from Offbeat Woman. The runner up is Marlee from Metamorphoself. See their comments here.

Mustard Seeds Say “NO” to Harsh Worldly NO’s

Tiny Brown Speck
It seems that when you plant a mustard seed in soil, it’s but a tiny brown speck; it is one of the least prominent looking of all seeds. Did you know that? YET, no matter what happens in its environment – it waits patiently – KNOWING that it will grow and become a lovely tree! No amount of environmental NO’s can stop it from its earthly destiny to grow.

And when the mustard seed grows into a magnificent tree, all the birds of the air come to perch on it and sing; they even raise their young in the tree. WOW!

Student: What is there for me to learn from that mustard seed?
Teacher: The mustard seed contains a great and magnificent invisible power, hidden from the human eye.
Student: What has that to do with me?
Teacher: You contain a great and magnificent invisible power, hidden from the human eye.

Illuminating tip: What seems insignificant, outwardly – holds great magnitude, inwardly.


Hidden Power
You cannot access your hidden power if you allow echoes of past NO’s to influence you (NO’s tremble that you may ponder this statement). When you learn to R.O.A.R. you naturally say “NO” to echoing NO’s, and you grow; your life expands.

ROAR-ing is not refuting the echoes of past NO’s; ROAR-ing is re-minding yourself of what you already know deep inside of you (it’s performed in the secrecy of your own mind).

To ‘re-mind’ is to put yourself back in touch with your original mind – the mind that is regnant and free to create your life as you want it to be.

Speaking of seeds, let’s take a moment to glimpse at the Redwood Tree seed; it begins as a small seed that feels like a small piece of chewing tobacco. Look what that small seed is able to do when planted in California: one tree, when cut down and made into boards, can supply lumber for thirty ‘seven room homes’. WOW!

There is incredible authority that comes with believing, ‘ WOW is me’ ; it creates the strongest and best kind of mind.

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W.O.W. is my acronym for Wonderful Obsession Winning!
(winning at what? winning at the game of life)
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What happens when we get caught in a lament of ‘WOE is me’?
We take on the learned role of ‘helpless victim’ (it’s learned; it’s not natural).

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W.O.E. is my acronym for What On Earth?
(meaning that we look out onto the planet for
a 1,000 reasons to excuse our life away)
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WOW is natural.
WOE is learned.
What is learned can be unlearned.

‘WOW’ has a unique power of its own; the attitude that accompanies WOW is self-awakening – it offers you great adventures in life.

It is time to learn to R.O.A.R. so you can unlearn the faulty lessons that WOE taught you. A good ROAR clothes itself with extraordinary creative power! When WOE diminishes, WOW naturally flourishes.

If you water a thorn bush, it offers nothing but thorns
(whining is watering … echoing NO’s are thorns … WOE is the bush)

If you water a Hydrangea bush, it blossoms with Hydrangea flowers. (ROAR-ing is watering … enchanting YES’s are the flowers … WOW is the bush).

The nature of ROAR-ing is kindness and compassion for yourself; it’s not shouting YES; A ‘YES-Shout’ has no clout. The little orange instruction book is coming.

Give yourself to more diligently reflecting on the life-lessons available with the above seed metaphors; don’t jump to quick conclusions; don’t assume you already know all there is to know about the matter – that’s being a ‘NO-it-all’. A ‘NO-it-all’ is NO-stuck; he’s stuck with saying “NO” to inspiring truths and fresh insights tapping on the door of his mind.

What do you think? What you can become is far greater than you think, so take pleasure discarding habitual thinking; stop being a ‘NO-it-all’. (I work on this daily)

Do give some feedback, please.
blessings

“Best Comment of the Week”. This weeks best comment comes from Sylvia. The runner up is Joe Wilner from Shake Off the Grind. See their comments here.

Be sure to check out my guest article on JK Allen’s wonderful (WOW) blog, The Hustlers Notebook.


Thanks for all those who braved the cold & came out to Village Books and made this stop on the ROAR Tour a success! If you are local be sure to stop into this wonderful, cozy little nook of a bookstore.

Reality Check: Where is There a NO Sitting Firmly in Your Mind?

The conditioned mind that asks a question about something contrasting its beliefs, CANNOT answer the question. Do you know why?

Let’s begin by taking a look at the word CAN … CAN implies that you are able to do something.

Now, lets look at the word CANNOT … CANNOT is actually two words combined: CAN-NOT, which implies that you are able to NOT do it.

The mind is truly genius with its reasoning; when it asks a question with a CANNOT attitude, it simply knows it is able to NOT find an answerr. This is how confident the mind is that it will come up blank.

Student: What’s the mind’s motivation for coming up blank when it asks a question?
Teacher: It would rather protect your precious old beliefs than support you with fresh and new answers.

As you continue to read this blog, please keep the above lesson in mind.

It’s time to apply the above realization of CAN and CANNOT to the 60,000 NO’s that you received from age 2 to 6. The mind will ask, “How do I rid past echoes of NO so that I’m regnant and free to create new activity?” The mind is asking with no intention of finding a true answer. It believes the NO’s are too powerful to overcome. It has been conditioned to believe this!

I notice a lot of folks will turn to motivational speeches and self-help books for answers, but won’t turn to the NO’s and look directly at the power they have in their lives. The mind prefers it this way; because it CANNOT help when asked to help. So, what will the mind suggest? “Let’s pretend shouting YES over the NO’s will do the trick”, exclaims the mind! It won’t work.

Student: What works?
Teacher: Real Thinking works.

Here is an example of Real Thinking: the echo of NO is only a consciousness; it can be overcome. It is possible to eliminate years of accumulated NO’s. You do it by learning how to effectively R.O.A.R. (key word here: effectively). Don’t assume you remember how to R.O.A.R. (yes, you did it as a child, but you got amnesia to ROAR-ing after 60,000 NO’s)

Be willing to admit that your life isn’t working as well as you’d like; be willing to say to yourself, “I want to re-learn how to R.O.A.R. once again.”

A full conviction to ridding your mind of NO-thoughts begins with accepting that NO has a powerful influence on you. Where in your life, is there an experience of lacking? Right there sits a NO in your mind. Are you willing to share this with the rest of us … where is there a NO sitting firmly in your mind (stopping you from experiencing YES in your life)?

The key to prosperity is the ‘spirit of willingness’. Willingness most often begins with accepting truths that bother us. Yet, the surest way to a healthy NO-free mind is seeking the truth and accepting it. To penetrate life-enhancing-truths, almost always begins with accepting that you are stuck with a growth-hampering attitude in some domain of your life (perhaps not all domains … but some).

Choosing to grow requires accepting a paradox: Growth is ‘NO shouts’ in reverse, but you don’t get there by just shouting YES … a ‘YES-shout’ has no clout. Wow, did you hear that?


‘YES-shouts’ have no clout.



Here is another paradox: Growth isn’t adding something on … it is undoing the limitations that NO impose on you. With the undoing of NO, you automatically grow. Wow, did you hear that?


With the undoing of NO, you automatically grow!



Freedom to do or not do to comes with freedom from NO.

When NO is zero … YES is all … but beware: YES is revelation (it’s a deep feeling of super-sufficiency); it’s not a three letter word.

Your greatest realizations come when you remove ignorance of the fact that you are an unlimited being. You cannot remove ignorance of this fact until you remove the NO’s.

I have been speaking about echoes of NO for a few blogs now. Why? Because so many folks insist they understand … when the truth is – they don’t. If they did, their world would show up very differently for them (and really … that’s not happening for soooo many folks, perhaps you’re one of them?).

The right path shows itself by providing glimpses of the truth – that is what I’m offering. Don’t slay the messenger; rejoice with me … and … the truth shall set you free! Be patient; I will show you the true way of ROAR-ing your way to self-liberty (liberated of NO). Little orange book – coming soon!

Blessings

“Best Comment of the Week”. This weeks best comment comes from Jk Allen from The Hustler’s Notebook. The runner up is Kara. See their comments here.

The Key to Your Psychological Jail Cell

Whether you admit it or not, there are times when you feel trapped.

Student: What has me feel trapped?
Teacher: 60,000 No’s!

Many psychologists, therapist and psychiatrists agree that between age 2 (terrible 2’s) and age 6, the average child is bombarded with 60,000 NO’s (some are loving NO’s and many are harsh and ridiculing NO’s). The howls of childhood NO’s don’t disappear on their own.

Again, whether you admit it or not, sometimes, you feel trapped by NO; you say,
“I’m going to break my golf score; NO, that’s not possible!”
“I’m going to begin my own successful business; NO, don’t be foolish!”
“I’m going back to school and get my degree; NO, it’s too late for me!”

Many folks feel so trapped by NO’s that they feel like prisoners, condemned to inhabit a lonely jail cell. I hope you’re not one of those desperate souls? IT’S NOT NECESSARY!

Oftentimes, when the trapped individual finds a way to break free of his psychological jail cell of NO’s, he’s sighted by a prison guard who heaps a dozen NO’s on him, which quickly has him rush back to his psychological jail cell. This pattern of ‘escape and recapture’ can occur for a lifetime if we make the wrong friends, marry the wrong person, or never leave the ghetto conditions (psychological ghetto), in which we were born.

How do NO’s stop you from creating the life you dream of experiencing? What aspirations and aims have you filed away by putting off ‘til tomorrow (the morrow that never comes)?

Your great chance for escape from the howl of NO is full knowledge of the NO’s and of those who condemn, ridicule, harshly judge, and scold you when you say YES to life; this includes the World Voice – it howls deep into the night (just watch the evening news).

Facts:
(1) You are superior to the NO’s.
(2) You are far more intelligent than any naysayers who haunt you with “NO!”
(3) If you’ve been following the latest Mind Adventure blogs, you now have superior wisdom.

Soon I will release a little orange book that will teach you a powerful way to turn down the volume on howling NO’s (not just temporarily, but permanently). I call this process ‘The Four Vital Steps of R.O.A.R.’ … it allows a faithful higher force to act for you (this force is found right inside of YOU!). “May ‘The Force’ be with you!” … it is with you; it always has been with you; it will always be with you. You will learn how to close your mind to the Woesome NO’s, with their defeating attitudes and worrisome moods. The NO’s will never again stop you from creating the future you dream of living into.

Dare to declare to yourself, ‘I am climbing to new heights of living … I am taking a mind adventure beyond my present mental state … I am accepting the Principle of Progress as my natural state of being’. Blaise Pascal offers a refreshing tip: “A principle installed in a good mind brings forth fruit.”

Blessings

“Best Comment of the Week”. This weeks best comment comes from JK from The Hustler’s Notebook. The runner up is Marcus Sheridan – The Sales Lion.

An Exercise in Higher Thinking

I am often asked, “What action should I take in this troublesome situation or in that troublesome situation?” My response is always the same, “You must make it a rule to follow an Essential Step of Progress – PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST – and think of the First Action as doing something with your mind that is different from what you usually do with it.

It matters not what the troublesome situation may be, if you do not consider putting first on your ‘action list’, a change in the way you do your thinking about the situation, then you can only react as you always reacted.

Thinking about a matter in a different manner requires refusing to think from impulsive thought patterns, refusing to think from standard thought-habits, refusing to think from your old reactive tendencies. This kind of new action requires taking the time to think things through from a fresh and new point of view.

When you react to a situation from impulsive thought patterns or reactive tendencies, it drains your creative energy; you find you are unable to come up with anything new. When drained of creative energy, you cannot help but do what you always did, which always gives you the results you always got.

A great way to catch a fresh insight into a troublesome situation is to slow down your thinking … and learn to R.O.A.R. The process of ROAR-ing is true action of progress – it immediately tosses out impulses and tendencies. ROAR-ing creates space for new thinking, which paves the way for a new response, which gives new results; results that move you closer to the outcome you seek to experience.

ROAR-ing is a healthy exercise in higher thinking. ROAR-ing requires that you suspend all judgments that you are holding toward troublesome situations.

• Do not conclude that the situation is ‘all bad’.
• Do not even insist that the situation contains a benefit that you’ve not yet found.
• Do not get angry when you cannot seem to see the situation differently.

Suspended judgment leaves space for something higher than the habitual. When you allow something higher to appear in your consciousness – the answer that you are seeking is seeking you.

Suspending judgment always leaves you with a receptive mind; it gets you out of your own way so that you may drop useless thought-trinkets for valuable insights.

Please hold tight – the little orange book that reveals a simple four-step progressive process (R.O.A.R.), will be out soon. It shows you how to correctly use your unlimited supply of creative energy; how to overcome mental timidity; how to participate in independent thinking … what JOY!

Please offer a comment or insight to add more depth to this blog. What you offer others you get to keep; what you teach, you learn better. Out of this arises the power to be fully involved and get the most from what I sharing.

Thank you and blessings

“Best Comment of the Week”. This weeks best comment comes from GeorgieBoy 1969. The runner up is Roger Pascal. See their comments here.

More About ROAR-ing

When you learn to R.O.A.R. about yourself to yourself (it’s an inside job), the next step is to be quiet … allow your ROAR to transform into a belief.

• Beliefs can transmute into FAITH (if you know next what to do).
• FAITH always transmutes into a physical experience.

ROAR-ing causes a different vibration than simply affirming.

• The vibration of ROAR-ing always radiates outwardly.
• Thoughts that radiate outwardly call upon the Grand Cosmic Boomerang to bring back its physical equivalent.

As your R.O.A.R. descends into a deeper level of your consciousness, it is received by a super sensitive area of your heart (where heart-mind exists).

• Heart-mind is your creative center.
• Heart mind is able to shape and form the infinite supply of pulsating ‘life force energy’ into function and from.

The beginning point of ROAR-ing … is … RECOGNITION.

• What must you ‘recognize’?
• How do you cause ‘the recognition’ to become unwaveringly true for you?

The little orange book (coming soon) will reveal all to you.


Might I leave you with these words of wisdom (words that come from my heart-mind, and are offered to your heart-mind) … As you strip your surface mind of its blindness- you resurrect the Authentic-you in all of its unlimitedness … and … when the Authentic-You is resurrected – you experience prophetic vision; you are able to predict your future.

Student: Why can I experience prophetic vision … and predict my future?
Teacher: When you resurrect the Authentic-Self from deep in your consciousness, you are able to design your earthly destiny; you are able to consciously create the future that unfolds for you.

Please let me know how your heart-mind feels about this blog; add any tips that you may have so that I (and other readers), may learn from your wisdom.

Thank you and blessings.

“Best Comment of the Week”. This weeks best comment comes from Magic Marc. The runner up is JK from the Hustlers Notebook. See their comments here.