February 7th, 2010 by rob white
You are about to receive an entirely new way of looking at yourself. You experience yourself on many levels of ‘beingness’, depending upon how you feel about yourself at any given moment. These feelings come from opinions that you’ve collected over the years and declared true about you, which is entirely your decision. Can you agree?
There are always higher and lower levels of ‘beingness’ available to you, and in this world of polarity (where all pairs of opposites meet) to experience the wowsome levels requires first going through some woesomeness. How are you going to experience feeling high if you have no reference to low? How can there be triumphant victory without a few stumbling blocks to make the challenge worthwhile? There is no law that says you have to continually stumble and linger in low. This wisdom inspires you to power through the woes.
When you get caught up in strained ‘woesome thinking’, experiencing lower levels of ‘beingness’ become a habit. See the insanity of such inward howling, and you immediately create space for an ascending attitude to Wowsome Beingness. TO BE OR NOT TO BE – THAT IS ENTIRELY UP TO THEE!
Wowsome Beingness is in harmony with your spiritual reality. It’s the natural feeling that accompanied you at birth. Don’t timidly hold back. You’re not here to merely cope with the struggles life hands you. Put first things first – take the time to appreciate all there is in the world out there to say “wow” about – and remember, you’re part of all of it – did you remember to say ‘wow’ about you today?
I love the phrase ‘wowsome beingness’. That’s a great new way of seeing myself. When we use words in a way that make us think, it always proves to be an boost. Thanks for that description: ‘wowsome beingness’.
I know the roller coaster ride of higher and lower levels of beingness. I can be flying high one day and wake up in a bad mood (being low) the very next day. I am moody, and it is time for me to choose wowsome beingness as my usual flight pattern. Good tip. I like these blogs.
With polarity always offering me lows to go through, I can see that my attitude determines whether I linger down there or jump higher. I lost my job; that’s a low. I immediately put out several resumes and within a month found a great job that is much more promising than my prior one. That’s a wowsome high. Yes, it is true that I am in charge of my woes and wows.
It really does help me get through the ‘low states of beingness’ when I understand that I cannot soar in the higher wowsome state without getting through the woes. Knowing it is part of the game of life makes me take it less personally.
I, like you, CarolAnne, can tend to take the woesome me too personally. I like the idea of more wowsome me and less woesome me in my life.
Putting firt things first and appreciating all there is to appreciate has me notice how wonderfully supportive my parents are, and how loyal my cat is to me. That does make me feel ‘wowsome’.
Polarity most definitely offers me woesome and wowsome experiences, and when I choose my ‘wowsome beingness’ to make my decisions, I experience a lot of ‘wows’ in my day. I can see that.
‘Wowsome beingness’ is a great feeling. We all deserve it. Most folks get caught in the habit putting others down to lift themselves up into a wowsome state of mind. That does not work.
Yes, my wows and woes originate with my thoughts about me and the world. If I change how I think about me and the world, those wows and woes change significantly. Great insight
My woesome experience lasted for a year last time before I caught on that if I was to experience the wowsome side of me, I had to get off by butt and take action. I now have a job I love.
I know when I am feeling wowsome and when I am being woesome. I feel woesome today – so watch out!
‘woesome beingness’ is an entirely new way of looking at myself, and I like how it feels. Words can be powerful in a positive and negative fashion. Using words to feel good is a great idea!
When you look at yourself with a feeling of ‘wowsomeness’, Randy, (which is what I believe you meant in your message), nothing can stop you from fulfilling on your aspirations and aims.
To be angry or not to be angry – that is entirely up to me. That’s a great tip when I think I have to be hotheaded about something.
I need wisdom to power me through the ‘woes’. I seem to think my friends know what is best, and yet their lives are no better than mine.
Sometimes my thoughts feel as heavy as lead. It can be difficult to elevate them when they are that heavy. Attitude is what lightens it all up. Good reminder.
Putting first things first, and making ‘appreciation’ first has changed my relationship with my wife.
Prosperity is in harmony with my spiritual reality. This is what I have been reminding myself to notice, and it is becoming very real for me.
spiritual prosperity is more than money, I have discovered that the hard way. I love the propserity I experience in my relationships even when money becomes difficult for me
I am having some great wowsome highs in my life these days. I met the greatest guy, bought a fabulous car and opened a savings account to begin saving for the purchase of a condominium in a year or two. It feels great.
There’s no triumphs without stumbling blocks. I was tripping over my bad attitude – that’s the biggest stumbling block. I am now doing soemthing about it. I affirm, ‘if it is to be it is up to me’. I like that.
It is a very empowering moment, Will, to recognize that the greatest stumbling block in one’s life is a bad attitude.
Lately I have been chastising myself for having a bad attitude. I end up asking myself “whats wrong with me” or “why cant I be positive” and things spiral downward. I dont know how to just switch my attitude around.
Taking the elevator to higher living (not making it a big struggle) is a big lesson you taught me a year ago, rob. I am still noticing how I make a lot of trouble out of what could be easy if I would let it be.
It is wonderful wisdom to see how life is as easy as we allow it to be, Maureen.
I cannot wait for the day when I genuinely feel that my stumbling blocks are necessary for my triumphs to occur. I am beginning to sense it is true.
I can’t wait for the day where there is no polarity and everything is sunny and bright – I guess that’s heaven.
woesome, negative thinking is a big strain on the nerves, and wowsome, motivated thinking is like a vitamin boost. Thinking generates energy that lifts us up or tears us down. The past week my thinking has lifted me into a new job and into meeting a new woman that I really like. How’s that!
To be or not to be – a higher level of beingness or a mechanical lower level of beingness (wow or woe) – that is the question. The answer is obvious to me.
Woesome and Wowsome – a poor attitude and a good attitude. What more needs to be said. Right on!
One of the most exhilarating experiences of wowsomeness I have ever had was skydiving. That truly gave me a spiritual rush.
I can see where all pairs of opposites meet in my work place. One moment we’re up, and the next we’re down. I play the stock market for a living.
My 3 year old can put me in strained ‘woesome’ thinking. It takes real willpower to pull out of it – but indeed, we can get to wowsomeness. I experience it when I take a second look at my 3 year old.
I have plenty of references to low – it is my time now to ride the high waves for a while.
What a wowsome day I had today. Everything just went right, including I bumped into an old friend that I’d not seen for years. He asked me out. Wow!
I have collected opinions over years that say the government should take care of its people. I am having second thoughts now. Yes, opinions can effect our lives in ways we do not notice. My advice – pay attention.
When we are young, Carrie, we don’t have the sense yet to pay attention to rather the opinions we receive help us or hurt us. We are too naive.
I love reminding myself, “there is no law that insists I stumble through life and linger in woesomeness.” It is funny to say that and it boosts my attitude.
I am remembering to find something to say ‘wow’ about every day – it works, I feel better after just a week of ‘wowing’.
I did not know I could look at myself differently. I thought the way I am is all there is to me. Just entertaining the thought that I can take a second look offers a lot of promise.
I thought there was a law that says I have to stumble – ‘the Peter Principle’ which says if anything can go wrong it will!
All wisdom can help us power throught the ‘woes’. When my father died, the wisdom of knowing he is so much more than his physical body helped me get through the grieving.
I eperience myself on many level – sometimes feeling spiritually high and sometimes feeling angry and low. My job is sticking to the spiritually high level when I can, rather than taking it for granted.
I forgot to say ‘wow’ about me yesterday. I am taking the time now to say a ‘double wow’ about me – one for yesterday and one for today.